A Letter To Those Who Doubt Me
I had a set of GOALS for April Health Month. I met those goals. They were not easy but I did it and in a months time I lost a little over 20lb! Now I have a letter for those that have doubted me on these goals and any of the goals from my past or up coming goals for my future.
To whom may not even care,
You doubted me. Little do you know your doubt sets fire to my motivation and your doubt has no chance of penetrating my fiery force field. I wish you well in your mistake in judgment. My goals stand taller then you will ever reach in your entire life. Next time you reach for something and you just can’t get it, I hope you see me up there plowing over one goal and then the next. If you don’t know me…in fact you don’t know me, if I set a goal go ahead and wait at the finish line. I may be crawling in, begging for mercy but as my eyes open after the weight of numerous challenges I see success and all you see is me proving you wrong. Was it worth it? You bet your sweet ass it was worth it. Every scrap, every shed tear, every push backwards, makes me stronger than anyone can imagine. You give up on me, you say I can’t do it, you speak of me traits you will soon regret. You are all nuts because I actually have nothing to prove to you!
I will never quit, I will always have goals, and with my last breath you will hear me express my gratitude for those of you who doubted me. I have done it, I can do it, and I will do it. Whats next for me? None of your business because I am in a place in life you will never find.
I will build myself to be stronger everyday and I will forever be grateful for those who are part of my life in big or small ways. As for you doubters I hope the simple life suits you well. This world has so much to discover and call me crazy but I am looking for all of it. On my way to discovery I hope to continue to change mt life and the lives of others in a more positive direction all the time.
To you negative doubters, I will waste no more time with you but if you ever get to me expect a tidal wave of positivism and gratitude to wash your negativity back in the deep sea.
P.S. HA! My life is way to awesome to not laugh every time you give up on me and tell me I can’t do it.
This will be my last post for the month of April. I have new goals for May so stick around.
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Posted on April 29, 2015, in April Health, Ways Of Ultra Positivism and tagged April Health, Challenges, doubt, Goals, upwithmarc, weight loss. Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.
Do you have so many doubters? That’s pretty gutsy of someone to outright tell you that you’re going to fail. You’ve been going in such an awesome and positive direction, and for you to take the time to devote yourself to addressing this negativity feels like a step back to me.
I’m so proud of you. I’m super excited for the endeavors that you have lined up for summer. Focus on those who are positive. Those who are negative will weed themselves out, because there won’t be anything to feed on, you don’t have to do a thing with them.
Focusing on besting this negative perception may improve your short-term outlook, but the fuel for lasting change will only come from within you.
Why are you giving so much attention to those who doubt you? Just continue as you are doing. There will always be those with negative criticism. Just thank them for noticing the positive person you are and move on in your life. Don’t invite them to compare with theirs. It will only create animosity and regret.
Keep a level head and move toward your goal. It doesn’t need to be boastful as long as the goal is yours only.