So now I would like to introduce to you baking with Ultra Positivism (UP)!
HA! I am not actually making baked goods but that is not beside my abilities. Perhaps someday the UPwithmarc snack cakes will be on shelves at a grocery store near you.
What I would like to bring to your attention is “sugarcoating,” to cover with sugar or to make something appear more pleasant then it is. This is a technique to lighten things in our lives that may not seem so good.
As a child sugarcoating is perhaps something of good use but as an adult sugarcoating is just not useful. We live in a life with real difficulties, real challenges, real negatives, and sugarcoating merely puts a temporary fix on the issue instead of just fixing it immediately. To these issues in life I say “be the sugar”. Live a real sweet life by rising above the challenges and let yourself be the sweet crystalline in your life.
Reality can be harsh sometimes but when you hear or see something negative take it with a grain of salt, and let the positivism in you be the sugar to Flour (flower) a more realistic and amazing world. There is sugar to be found everywhere in life but you have to be sweet enough to find it.
Don’t sugarcoat, instead be the sweet sugar that coats a life of positivism.
Dinner with a 1st grader
Usually I use Wednesdays to talk about ways of positivism but I am going to change it up for a worthwhile story about going to the Chinese buffet.
2 Fridays ago I went by myself to the Chinese buffet. A well known fact about me is that I LOVE buffets and I cannot resist going to them. The daughter of the owner was talking and giggling to her mother while I was paying my check.
The mom then asks me “do you work at (censored) Elementary School?”
I said “yes I do.”
“My daughter says she sees you at P.E.” (Physical Education)
“Yes that would make sense; she must be in first grade.”
I turned to the daughter and told her to make sure she said hi to me the next time she saw me in P.E.
I did not see her the whole week but I did end up going to the same buffet this past Friday. I saw her there but I did not say anything. I sat down went about my business stuffing my face with Americanized Chinese food. That little girl came up to me and asked if I remember her. Of course I did. She was also sad that she did not see me at all last week. I asked for her name and made sure she knew mine.
The little girl said, “I am going to run up to you in P.E. and see if you remember my name!”
This adorable conversation went on for about a half hour or so while I was eating. At first she was standing by me then eventually she sat down in the booth across from me.
In her innocence I doubt she knew that she made my night. So sweet of her to sit and chat with me, so thankful for her mom to trust me, and so grateful for not only a full stomach but a full heart as well that Friday night.
Children are the future of our existence. If we can mold their innocence into a more positive life and way of thinking, we can certainly look for a better tomorrow. We need to be positive ourselves in order to share that positive image for our children. We need to live a positive lifestyle in order for our children to lead a positive life. They don’t learn positivism from books, movies, or lesson plans; they learn from the connection from your heart and soul to theirs. Positivism is as innocent as a child, why not nurture our inner child in order for our children to have the opportunity to live a more positive life!
I literally could start a whole new blog just on my interactions with the students at my school. My experience with working on the cruise ship was amazing but my journey working with elementary school students is a far more amazing experience at heart. Love ourselves, love to children, and love the future!